All the guys I've been out with only seem to have one thing on their mind. My last boyfriend was 19 and he seem to be really h*rny. Do all male teens only date for se*ual pleasure? How rare would it be to find someone who's not? Are guys still like this when they're older?
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Teenage guys = horny bastards. That's just hormones speaking. But there are guys who manage to control these hormones like true masters and of course there are teen guys who also have morals so no. Not all male teens date for pleasure. It all depends on the type of guy and their personal values or their lack of values for that matter. Not all guys will try and push you to get satisfied but the trick is finding those guys. Usually you can see quite early on in the relationship/friendship whether they are going to be one of those horny boys. They'll ask questions like whether you're a virgin, what underwear you are wearing and the furthest you have gone. These are good indications on what is on their brain. Like I said, even the seemingly innocent and good guys will probably be sexual animals in their heads but they'll be able to resist the urge much better and won't actually go as far as doing something up about it. I'm not a guy but I do have a lot of guy friends and we always share information like this to know how the opposite gender works. They all agreed that deep down they think about sex all the time but some of them manage to hide this or won't jump on any girl for the sake of their hormones. I wouldn't say it's rare to find those guys. You just need to look at the right places. Going to a club for example is going to get you a better chance at getting horny guys. So are classic teen parties. So watch out for that. As for whether guys are still so horny when they're older. I can't answer to that unfortunately because I'm not a guy but I can say that all the older guys that I know never seem to ask the pervy questions like the younger guys tended to and seemed much more relaxed/ less pushy. All in all dating as a teen isn't really a bad thing or a good thing. There's good and bad. It all comes down to finding the right guy for you and you can very much find that guy in high school. Don't place all of them under the same umbrella.1