So I have two best friends.
One is a girl lets call her Jane and one a boy lets call Joe.
So Jane and joe get together about a year ago and things were fine for a couple of weeks and then Jane decides there better friends and breaks it off without anything getting serious.
A year later and now Joe and I realize we both like each other. I ask Jane if its okay for me to date him and spend more time with him, not wanting to breach girl code. She said she doesn't want to stand in my way. Now Joe and I are not serious at all yet, at the moment. But I can see it developing, don't know if I should feel bad or not... ? Any advice?
Most Helpful Guy
Ok if Jane and Joe saw each other for 2 weeks a year ago, how does that entitle Jane to rule the rest of Joe's dating life? Esp. if she's the one who broke it off. If he left her with a kid, that's one thing, but a two week fling?
Like I can't fathom to tell my friends some girl is undatable because I had dated her for two weeks a year ago - it just makes 0 sense. Is it because I left her she is labeled a bad person? Or because I have a permanent right (among my circle) to claim her back?
Please explain this part of the girl code1