Why doesn't he text me?
What Guys Said 1
A lot of guys hate texting in general. We like to talk to you face-to-face, and many guys do NOT live their lives on their phones. Also, texting is HORRIBLE for having conversations, and that exactly what girls usually want to do: have a long, back-and-forth conversation via text. Some guys are okay with that, but most guys aren't. They view texts as something for very, very brief conversations:
"Coming over tonight?"
"Ok, c you then."
Most guys don't multitask very well, so they have to come to a complete stop with whatever they are doing in order to text. Most girls multitask well, so they can text while they do 3 other things, so it's not as big a deal for them.
Bottom line: he likes to enjoy you in person, not via an impersonal text message on his cell phone. If something is important, and you can't wait until you're face-to-face to talk about it, CALL him. Keep your texting as short and focused as possible, and do NOT use it for relationship-related stuff ("How do you feel about us?"), but instead limit texting to brief "good morning"/"good night", short messages that require no reply ("Thinking about u"), or coordinating events ("pick you up at the mall 9pm, we'll meet Todd and Christie at 10:15").
In other words, re-calibrate your expectations, and don't put a lot of weight on texting as a barometer for your relationship.0
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