Ok, so I have all the confidence in the world to meet a girl. I'm 19 and haven't had a girlfriend. I've dated many people, but for various reasons it hasn't worked out. I try to meet girls wherever I go. I'm very very very picky when it comes to girls because I know my own self worth and won't sell myself short. I'm athletic, cute(many girls have said this...), smart, funny, set for the future, and laid back. I have dated some amazingly attractive girls and even some just average girls...but the reason I date someone is for their personality. I can't find a girl whose personality completely meshes with mine. The first two things I look for in a girl: 1) Athletic 2) Humor. It's hard for me to find both.
Anyway... what are some tips to get a girlfriend after you meet someone you actually want to date? What are some tips to find cute, athletic, funny, and smart girls?
I may be asking for too much, but I want my girl to have all of that. I've only found one girl in my 19 years that I have loved because she fit every category I have every wanted. But we were in different places in our life and I triend getting commitment too fast and it scared her off :(
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I think you're expectations are WAY too high. It's good not to be a push-over and let girls walk all over you... But you just seem to be extremely superficial... Like, over the top.. You need to RELAX! Finding a girlfriend is NOT supposed to be this hard.
1.) You need to start off by finding a girl you are physically attracted to. This doesn't mean she has to be drop dead gorgeous, this just means that there has to be something about her that draws you to her.
2.) Once you find THAT girl, strike up some conversations with her.
3.) Once she seems to feel comfortable with you and LIKES you (that parts important..) ask her out.
4.) When you go on a date and you guys are getting to know each other better, DO NOT list all of the things you're looking for in your girlfriend! If the topic comes up, just simply say, "I'm looking for a girl who gets me and I can connect with." Because essentially, that is what you're looking for. Instead of trying to make a girl fit your expectations make your expectations fit the girl!
5.) Voila! You've found yourself a girlfriend!
6.) If, for whatever reason, things do not work out between you and this girl. Start over beginning with Step 1.
I'm sorry but it is near to impossible for you to find a girl who literally has EVERYTHING on your wish list...1