Meaning why do some guys have sex with a girl & then get to know her?
Why not get to know her first?
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Good question. Mostly because most guys have just sex on their mind I initially and constantly and/or they aren't interested in building a relationship of some sort. I however can't do that. I have to get to know a girl very well before I have sex with her. Anywhere between 1.5-2 months of us spending lots of time together and getting to know each other before we jump into sex, makes both of us really comfortable.1