It's with a girl I've known for a couple years. It's my second ever date, first with her, so I'm inexperienced. She has a lot of experience and I don't think she cares about the date that much. I've tried not to, but as the day has come closer, I've gotten a little nervous. I still have to get her address, so now I'm worried that when I ask for her, she'll change her mind. Any tips for me?
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Its natural insticnt to get excited for a date for anybody. Just remember though as somebody mentioned to me along time ago, "Dont worry about if she is in to you or not. Just worry about how can you have a good time with this lady on this particular night. A lot of men may be trying to focus on possible signs that we think woman may give off to see she's interested, the man might actually ignore the woman herself. During a date I had I caught myself falling into that pithole but got back out of it. Also you sort of want to control the date as well. Don't wait for her to suggest something or do something, do it yourself. If your going out to eat maybe be like hey lets go get some desert here because their ice cream is great. Also know when to end the date is important. As much as you would want to drag it out and spend the most time with her as you can, dont. Let the date last for an hour or two and end YOURSELF. If you feel like the the conversations are dying and your struggling to find something, definitely end the date and take her home...HOpe some of this helps for you. Just remember, first dates arre nerve racking for both parties no matter the experience levels. I still get nervous and gone on many of dates...0