If he was in a serious relationship for 3 years and it ended not that long ago ( around 6 months ) could he really not be ready or is he letting me down easy. He says things like " when I'm ready you will be the first to know" and " I like you but I hope you understand I'm not ready right now, but you are not wasting your time with me". We've never done anything sexual. We went out once and he said he really enjoyed it and wants to again, he also says he thinks we have a connection. We really do. He's a great guy, he hasn't dated or slept with anyone since his break up. He just golfs everyday and I see him at work. At work he always says hi and I catch him looking at me a lot, I can tell by the way he looks at me he likes me. I really like him, does he seem genuine and does it seem like something I should wait for?
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It could be he wants to keep you around as an option or he really is just getting over his relationship. When people get out of long relationships or what is long to them they tend to want their space and to get over their ex as well as enjoy their freedom. So it isn't odd to mi that he doesn't want to date right away. ^_^ hope it helps.0