Okay so I am supposed to be going out with this girl, but I have no idea of what to talk to her about. Other then the hey how was your day, how were classes? There isn't much that I can possibly think of without coming off to strong, what do you like doing in your free time(which she states is not much). Maybe someone can help me with this.
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How did you meet her? Wherever you met her, that's a common point of interest (geography, friends, work, classes, pineapple section of the grocery store etc.) that you have in common. Touch on that a little and ask a transitional question. For example, if you met through mutual friends, talk about one of your "best of" antics and ask her about hers. Ask how long have you each known these friends? Ask who else in the group you know and how you met. This sort of thing will lead to NEW transitional questions based on your mutual interests in certain types of sports or hobbies.
If you're in different classes at school, ask her how they went. If you're in similar classes, ask her what she thinks of X, Y and Z.
The standard one I get is "How are you? How was your day and how was your night?" It was interesting the first time I got a message like that, but afterward it seemed too prefab. Ask her open questions ("How"/"What"/"Where"/"Who"/"Why") rather than closed questions ("Did you...") that she can answer with a yes, no, or shrug. "How did you like the concert?" is better than "Did you like the concert?" for instance.
Basically, let her know that you're interested in her, not just her looks. Too strong would involve asking too many questions as though you're interviewing her for a job. Girls hate that. Try to be casual and ask related questions, transitioning smoothly in the convo. Don't rush.0