First off, this girl lives 200+ miles away so we only communicate through Facebook or text. Sometimes I text her too much or message her too much so lately, for the past few months, I ask her how I am doing and she knows that I am referring to giving her appropriate space. Tonight I asked her how I was doing and she said 'Pretty good, however back off the texts a bit because it runs my bill up.'. I of course asked if she no longer had unlimited and she said 'I do but I just think sending/receiving 200+ texts a day is a bit much.', just so you know I only texted her a total of maybe 150 texts in the past week. I only know this cause I deleted my texts today. I then asked her if she wanted me to just Facebook her or only text her around 9. She said to Facebook her at 9 if possible. I am getting the feeling that I am either annoying her or she wants me to back off. She did just get back from a church retreat though so that could have significance though it will only last a few weeks and her current boyfriend is being a bit creeper and clingy. I once had this girls interest and sometimes I think it might still be there but really suppressed, what should I do? I think I am gonna lay low for a bit and ask her if she wants me in or out of her life, we have known each other for quite a while now (as in 4 or 5 years).
How should I handle this situation with a friend?
What Girls Said 1
Well, if her boyfriend is being too clingy or being a creeper, she probably didn't want another one bugging her with texts. You should lay low for a minute or text one a week or day. You can also just give her a good morning text. Better yet, give her a surprise visit one day. Then you guys can hang out and see where you guys are at (or if she likes you or thinks you're annying). Hope that helps!0
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What Guys Said 1
i think you're out of your mind. get a life or something.
"I once had this girls interest and sometimes I think it might still be there but really suppressed, what should I do?" - A HA HA, my god, this is just amazing. the ego. "suppressed." amazing.
please, if there was this "interest" in the past from her side you *killed* it. it's six feet deep, buddy. who's gonna read all that nonsensical babble of yours all the time? ha?
she can't stand you any more. it's over.0
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