I suppose we're friends, but after the date we've made minimal contact in the 3 weeks since then. No text or phone calls and we've seen each other in person a few times in class, only to completely ignore each other, no eye contact, nothing. The one time I talked to her, it was just us two in the hall, so we just made small talk for a moment (because to ignore her outright would be rude/show her she holds too much influence over me).
On my end, I'd be willing to try again, but I'm not feeling it from her end (hence my reserved demeanor around her). The date didn't end all that well as it seemed she didn't want it to go on much longer and, to be honest, I didn't do a good job either.
Any point in kicking the tires again? Or just let it go?
No, I don't think she's worth putting that much more effort in because, believe me, I did all the chasing to get her to go on the date (although it appeared SHE was the one who was into me, so I thought all I had to do was ask and I'd she'd go, but I guess that wasn't the case). Since I put in the effort to invite her out, if she was interested I'd expect her to be the one to initiate the next one. And she hasn't, so I guess she's not. And if I'm not getting enough positive feedback from her, I'm not going to keep trying.
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Yeahh, she might just be feeling a little insecure because of how the last date went. It's weird that you guys have been ignoring each other for 3 whole weeks... You just need to go up to her and ask her, find out what the hell happened and where she stands. I think it makes more sense to ask her what she's thinking than to just ask her out a couple more times and then decide, "Oh, she's not into me anymore. On to the next one." There may have been something that happened that you don't know about. Just go up to her one day after class and be like, "I know our last date wasn't that great. I don't know how you feel about me at this point and just want to know what you're expecting from me now... Are we still friends or...?" Something like that... lol.0
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