We see it as we need to be completely thin and perfect, but do guys really care THAT much?
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Yes and no. There's no clear cut answer to this because you are going to find both kinds of guys.
I'll be honest. There are a ton of guys who mostly only want the thin perfect girl. A lot of it is the brain washing they get from the media. Others are shallow.
The other thing is you're going to find guys who are picky, but not the way you think. Some guys really prefer the big beautiful women (BBW). It's another taste and it does exist beyond what the media wants you to believe.
And then you'll have the guys who aren't as picky. They'll have a broader rage of what they want. Generally, a key thing is that most men want someone healthy. So nothing on the extreme side. For the nonpicky guys this means anything from slim to heavy.
A guy doesn't really pick what he's attracted to. I can't tell you at all why I find some women attractive and others with very similar appearances not. I can say that I find women of all shapes attractive.
I'll let you in on one other little secret, but don't go telling the whole world. Yes, guys and girls don't think the same and everyone knows this, but just like women like a variety of different things in men, guys like a lot of different things in ladies.
So ladies, don't be afraid to be yourselves.2