I just went on a date with a guy I met a couple of weeks ago. He seemed great, sweet, cute and funny. We had lunch, then we went to see a movie and then for coffee. We spoke about everything and we had a great time. We laughed and shared a lot of things and we are very similar. At one point he even started wondering what we could do next time we saw each other.
At the end of the date (we had been together for like 6 hours) he looked at me and said "so, shall we go to a brothel?". It wasn't a joke, he was serious. I said "um, NO". He said "ok" and then we went on saying goodbye and he told me he´d call me to go out again.
Of course, I never heard from him again (it´s been two weeks).
I lost faith in humanity. Seriously. Please, tell me not all guys are like this. I know and understand that you need sex and I´m fine with it. But sometimes I feel like hitting people who make me upset and I don´t do it because I have manners and I respect other people.
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From what you've described, that guy is the biggest, most clueless jackass to ever walk the Earth. No, that is NOT normal.
Rest assured, most guys aren't that socially inept. Sure, many guys are just looking for sex, but even most of them can be decent about it. And it's not your fault; it doesn't sound like he gave you any real warning signs about his douchey attitude before that. Just forget about him and try again. Not every date is going to work out, and that's what dating is for: to help filter out the bad ones and keep the good ones.2