So, I'm approaching 27 years very quickly, less then a month no less and I've decided that I should start looking for a nice girl and settle down. TRY to settle down anyway. However, I seem to have trouble even getting a blasted date.
Now, just a bit of background. I'm a rather (actually VERY) fit, attractive (honest!), intelligent guy with a REALLY good sense of humor in his late 20's looking for a fairly committed relationship. And from what I've been told and even read this seems to be some pretty good credentials to have at this point in the game. Problem is, I can't MEET or get a DATE let alone do the settling down bit.
Before I get the "you need more confidence" answers, I have plenty of it. All the things I wrote about my self I wholeheartedly believe and if that ain't SOME kind of confidence I'm not sure what is. I try and flirt and act charming and all that jazz, but to no avail.
So, is it me? Or is you guys... er gals? Am I doing it wrong or are chicks just not responsive to the type of person I come across as?
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It's pretty common to hear about attractive, successful, nice women wanting to settle down and not being able to find someone. You've just discovered that despite the stereotype, this is true for men too. Finding the right person is hard, and takes time. Realizing that that's what you're looking for is a big step, but there's no way to rush finding someone you like enough to settle down. I don't think it's you or them - you just need patience. Be sure you're not coming across as arrogant or insincere, but other than that I think it's just a matter of time and luck.4