Seems to be everyone on this site says to avoid all contact with an ex when you are trying to get over them. Is this always the case, or do you think there are exceptions?
Does staying in contact always make it harder, than not? It's hard enough not being part of their life when you want to be already. Even if they expressed interest to stay in touch, they always respond to texts, tell you that you can call anytime. Is it a bad idea?
How often should you contact an ex you still care about?
- SOMETIMES: Stay in touch occasionally because you still care about them (even though you're not over them)Vote A
- NEVER: Delete their number and never text or call them, move onVote B
- ALWAYS: Text them and call them until they get annoyed and tell you to leave them aloneVote C
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I mean, it's just up to you. I text and call my ex. I miss her, I rely on her from time to time.
At the same time, sometimes I need to remember that if she wanted to be with me, she would be. You can really hurt yourself if you let your expectations to get too high.3