So I've been dating this guy for a few months now. Things kind of started off rocky. After the first month I surprised him by doing his laundry...but while doing this, I found a girls pair of workout shorts! All of his laundry was on the floor! It's been three months now, and I've found another girls shirt, another girls sweater, and another girls blanket. This guy is very attractive, I tend to go for more down to earth dorky guys...and he has a lot of girls that pursue him. He says he's made it clear that he's dating me, but there are still a couple girls who text him randomly trying to hang out. I've never been an insecure girl but all this makes me uncomfortable. Am I crazy to feel this way? Its gotten to the point where he says he can't take me questioning him anymore, and he's right, he hasn't done anything worng. What should I do?
Should I be worried?
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Yeah that sounds super suspicious to me. No offense tho but girl what are you thinkin doin his laundry after only knowin him a month? You're not his freakin Mom. Make a guy work for it a little bit before you put that much effort into him. He sounds like he's totally not worth the effort either.0
even if girls did try to pursue him, how would their clothes end up in his laundry. don't make excuses for him, uve done nothing wrong. he isn't the right guy for you.0
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