Saturday night I went to a party. In less than 10 minutes of me being in there a really handsome guy came up and started dancing with me. After the song was over I kinda walked away yet we kept running into each other throughout the remainder of the party. Finally, the party ends and my friend and I go to the car. He and his friend are outside as well and they continue trying to get closer to the car. Eventually they come up to the car and he says " I was wanting to talk to you" to me to make a long story short we exchanged numbers and I told him to call me sometime. Well I got kinda impatient and I didn't want him to feel like he was being too aggressive if he were to call me so quickly after we met so I texted him first, we talked for a bit, but then he didn't reply to the last message I sent (talking about what we wanted to do in the future). I'm really interested in getting to know him, but I don't want to seem like a pest. Of course, he could've forgotten to text back or maybe he thought he text back or whatever. Tomorrow is Thanksgiving so I was just going to say something like "Hope you have a nice Thanksgiving (;" or something and see what happens. So should I text him first again or just wade it out? (Which is hard...)
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things like "Happy Thanksgiving" I think is a natural 'given'. It isn't starting a conversation, yet it's not stopping one. I think it's a great idea to randomly send him a text like that. It shows your a 'holiday activist' and a positive upbeat person.
If he texts back, great. If he doesn't, no big deal. You were just saying Happy Thanksgiving to friends.1