So about a month ago. I meet this guy online, at first he had a good game and is a very fast talker, but I'm the dumb one to fall for it. I mean No he's not a bad person, But there are things he do and how he do makes me wonder. But point is what I'm making is he says that he likes me as well, but sometimes I don't see where that comes into show sometimes I feel like he is playing mind games. I mean there has been things he said out of the way that didn't sound, right and had piss me off in ways. But I would like to know how not to chase after him, because he don't chase after me. We can be texting then after a while he just disappear, he says I send 5 or more text messages to his phone. But damn! that because I'm looking and waiting for you to reply back duh lol. And another thing is, any time I want him to call me he always says he busy or just don't want to talk. :( I mean I'm not with him but do anyone know if he is into another girl or times I don't hear from him he's talking to another girl and doing things with them. Why I say that because he has been acting strong and not talking to me as much as I would like I mean he could really be busy or may not want to talk I really like him a lot but in the long run I shouldn't allow myself fall for some-one so hard I barely even know . And plus how can I back off to let him know that I'm not always open for his time.
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If he is saying he is too busy and he doesn't want to talk then he is not interested. He's taking a step back. If he is really interested and likes you he would be texting and calling and wanting to talk to you. Its really easy to fall for someone if they are giving you attention and then when they stop or it slows down it really hurts. My advice is don't jump to contact him if he likes you he will contact you. If he doesn't I would move on to someone who really values your time and genuinely wants to talk and get to know you.1