I've been dating this guy on and off for a month. we went out to dinner a couple times. I've spent the night at his house twice, second time we had sex. he's a cool guy but I don't feel the connection and I'm not ready for something serious. we never really talk on the phone, just text. so should I just text him or do it in person?
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Oh man, I'm in the same place. Great guy but just not the one for me. I would tell you to do it in person, but it's so hard :C because basically if I agreed to see him, I would do it knowing I'd dump him...he's a nice guy and I don't want to hurt him, but I'm convincing myself that as a nice guy, he deserves to be respected and told in person. Good luck, but you should really just tell him in person.
Or actually, what do you think about calling him? Because I would feel bad dragging him somewhere to meet me and then making him endure the pain...0