Should I trust him, or is he playing me?

Thanks for the help! I'll try making this as short as possible. We're both 20, by the way.

I'm in college. Met a guy at a nearby college. Hit it off. Hung out for a month along with texting 24/7. Had our first official date Friday night. Went very well, in my opinion. Our goodbye lasted a half an hour because we kept on kissing, hahaha.

During the date, he told me multiple times that he wanted to see me again on December 26th. He also told me that on Sunday, he was starting his winter break job. Direct quote: "I'm not going to be able to text you as much, but don't freak out when my texting decreases drastically. It doesn't mean that I'm distancing myself or that I'm losing interest. I can sometimes text you intermittently throughout the day, and during my lunch break." (He works from 7:00 A.M. to 3:00 P.M.)

Saturday, he went home. Texted me at midnight for a couple of hours.Told me that he had a nice time the night before, that he definitely wants to see me again on the 26th, and we made plans past that as well.

Sunday, I heard from him twice in the early afternoon. And that's the last I've heard from him. It is now 10:00 P.M. on Monday here.

I don't know what to think. I've been told by multiple people that if a guy is into you, he'll find a way to contact you. He hasn't been on Facebook or anything, but still. No one is TOO busy to send one text.

No, I don't want to text him first because I don't want to seem clingy.

Should I move on, or am I overreacting?


Most Helpful Girl

  • I would give it some time. I would wait til the weekend and contact him if he already hasn't. If he doesn't contact you back, I would move on. First dates can turn out great, but getting that second date is hard. and I agree, nobody is too busy send one text back.


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  • Move on move past him. Girl he sounds like he might be married or committed to someone else. Never make someone your priority when you are only an option for them. Good Luck.