If you have been texting or messaging normally with a girl every day for several weeks, would you suddenly decide to cut things off to see how she might react? Or so that you can be of "higher value" in her eyes? Even if she has been responsive and has been initiating at times?
Do you notice if you stop texting and she stops texting and so there is no texting? Or is that something only girls notice?
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I don't do it to increase value, usually I do it because we're not talking about anything important. Let's be real, texting 4 or 5 times a day...7 days a week...is 28-35 texts a week...now say you've been dating for like 3 months...that's a lot of contact. Plus you are seeing this person probably once or twice a week...god forbid maybe even more than that...you burn out. Maybe it's just me, but unless this person is the world's most interesting man or y'all are sexting then other than giving mundane details or complaing about what could you be saying to each other that often? I don't beleive in oversaturating a fledgling relationship with too much communication. You can get sick of the person quickly. You should never answer every text, especially if is says something like "what are you up to?" "what did you do today?"...it's called having other things going on in your. Never text a new guy more than 3 days in any given work week.0