I've been seeing this guy that I've known since college for almost four months. He lives two hours away. He is a travelling business man & is in town quite often. His job in the medical field so his job is top priority. Lately, he has been really flaky on me. His communication sucks and just this past week he has been in town and has cancelled on me like 3 times for work. Saturday, I was supposed to come up to see him but yet again work came up. Then yesterday he was in town and we were going to meet up for lunch and he told me to wait and I never heard from him. He helps me out financially which is great but he has been acting super weird. He told me that he is suffering from a potential nervous breakdown. I am not sure if it is bi-polar disorder or what. Because he really does distance himself from me, like going MIA maybe a little depressed. So, I don't know if that is complete BS or true. This man works 110 hours a week complete workaholic. So, what should I do move on? Or what?
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if he is working that much he frankly doesn't have time to apply himself to a relationship. So on your end you have to decide are you OK with accepting whatever free time he does devote to you as being adequate because frankly if I worked 110 hours a week I would feel like any free time I have is going to be my free time where I focus on myself 100%.
Additionally if he is really going through a nervous breakdown or is bipolar certainly working that much can trigger mental breakdowns especially if he is already prone to them
He does sound flaky but with his mental health concerns and insane work schedule it is not surprising that his behavior is flaky0