I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. We are living together and have a 4 month old son. We broke up a few times before we had our baby. Today he got a brochure about specials for ballet performances and musical. I was about to throw it away and he said no don't. I said since when do you like ballet or musicals? He said he went to a few before we got back together. I asked with who and he won't tell me. He said why so you can stalk her on Facebook or something. He said it doesn't matter who I went with because I'm not with her I'm with you. I got upset. Do I have a right to know not am I just being annoying and drop it?
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I would say you don't have a "right" to know but you guys should really have enough trust to be able to discuss it. I'm assuming he isn't saying a name because he is worried about your reaction?
Can I just raise one point that nobody else seems to have picked up on? You have a 4 month old baby. That's a very emotional time for any couple , especially a woman when she may be feeling an element of baby blues or post natal depression. Also both of you will be more tired than you realize ( I didn't realize how tiring the first six months was until much later when I looked back) and adjusting to a new life situation and responsibilities . Many women feel very unattractive and insecure at this stage.
How has your relationship and mood been generally of late?1