ok so I've come up with a few questions to ask a girl if I go on a date. They are open ended questions where she can come up with more than just a yes or no response but I'm still kind of afraid the date will end up seeming more like an interrogation then actual conversation. Do you get annoyed when a guy keeps asking questions? I mean how else do you learn about the other person right? I guess the other solution is to pick a date that involves something else to fill in the time so it won't seem like one big questionare. Any thoughts on this?
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A date can be daunting for this reason. It's hard to make conversation when you don't know this person. But hopefully they will be able to open up a little with you and keep a conversation going without you having to ask all the questions.
I don't get annoyed when someone is asking me questions. Especially when it's a date, because on a date it's kind of implied that they want to get to know you and questions will need to be asked.
Maybe instead of a restaurant date, try doing an activity. This way you can still ask the occasional question but you have something else to focus on to also help facilitate conversation and get to know her better. Go to a pottery class, mini golf, site seeing tour, obstacle course, wine and food show, anything that will take your mind off having to make conversation. It should then just flow naturally. Yes there might be some awkward silence at some points, but that's normal. It won't last forever.0