When I think more and more about nice guys, and what I've seen about nice guys...
The more I think about how skrewed their perspective is.
- Girls doVote A
- No they don'tVote B
From my experience:
The nicest guy to me was the most boring of all. I wasn't a bitch and told him to f*ck off. I let him down gently.
Another one wasn't a jerk, he just had his own issues. But I liked him the most because he was funny and was more my type.
My current boyfriend is neither boring nor unstable. He's a great guy.
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The problem is that most guys instantly assume the other dude's a jerk if she picks him over them. It's self-justification to keep self-esteem, it's an easy excuse.
If the other dude is nice and she picks him over the guy, who's also nice, then there's another, harder to explain to themselves, fault in it.2