It is agreed between my husband and I that we get a divorce but for now for financial reasons and because of the kids we still live together. He sleeps on the couch, drained our bank account and opened his own account, we barely talk and haven't had sex in over a year. We will have been married 10 years come March but things have been tough for the last 6 years. My question is this. Is it too early for me too be looking? I mean I am only human and I am lonely. I am not talking sex here just getting out and enjoying the company of a guy, rediscovering life, and feeling appreciated again. Would this be wrong? Of course I would be honest with whoever I would be interested in, they would know from the start. But would this be cheating? We share the same roof but that is all we share and he and I are on the same page. What's your opinion?
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Reading this it is almost like I wrote it.
I always put my children first but I still needed to take care of myself. I think the first thing you need to do is live separate. I know it is hard financially but you will make it and the beginning is always the hardest on everyone including the kids. Once that happens you should start going out. I met someone in your position and he knew everything. He helped me through it all and had it not be for him I would have ended back with my ex even knowing that it would be the worst mistake for everyone. They say that people enter your life for a season, a reason or a life time. He was my reason. Good Luck