Hear me out. I'm not letting the person who played you off of the hook, but would you agree with the idea that people who tend to get cheated on repeatedly have a trait or flaw somewhere that causes them to be attracted to jerks? Would you agree that often there are big glaring signs that you are dating an a****le? Signs that people conveniently ignore when they are want to beleive the best about someone? So actually many times these people are actually delusional, believing a fairytale about the person they are with rather than seeing them for who they really are.
So in light of that, it's kind of your own fault if you get played by someone? Food for though. What do you guys think? Am I just a prick? Or a realist?
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I say so. If you know that a certain girl or guy is a player or comes from a background of two timing and being unfaithful you should blame know one but yourself if you get played. if you thought that they would change I have zero sympathy. I believe that people can change, but you do need to be cautious in situations like this. I know some people who fall into traps like this because the girl or guy has almost all the traits of a good partner and tend to overlook the player past because "this time it will be different". There are signs so look out for them1