My question is what to do about my "sometime boyfriend's" visit. He lives 5-6 hours away. We've been dating over a year and he is supposed to visit this weekend. He's never been willing to commit to me or call me more than his "sometime" girlfriend.i'm ashamed to admit I've been sleeping with him. Love is blind, I suppose.
Well, I just went on a first date with a new guy and I like him. He just sent me an email to get my work address for sending my flowers for Valentina's day. Sometime boyfriend has never done that! There's no way I'd let this go! He included the caveat that he knows we are not an "official" couple. He also made a second date.
"Sometimes" boyfriend is supposed to come see me this weekend. I do still have feelings for sometimes boyfriend and would be okay with a PG13 visit, but I'm not comfortable sleeping with one guy if I have feelings for another, even if it is in the infancy stage.
Help! What should I do?
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I would just be honest w "sometime" boyfriend. I mean if he's not willing to give you what you want and you are getting that from the new guy then why continue things w that guy? At the age you're at you shouldn't have to be puttin up w any of this nonsense. I know how it feels to have feelings for someone that is unwilling to commit and it hurts like a motherf***er. I would cut ties w him and start investing your time into people that are able to give you what you need and that make you happy. :)0