When we kiss, it seems like we are both going for two very different things. I'm going for a slow-sensual kiss on the lips. But she kisses very fast and the tongue comes out immediately to the point where she licks my lips if I don't adapt and follow her lead. It kinda feels like she's rushing it. I don't have a lot of kissing experience so I thought maybe I'm the problem but I think it's common knowledge to not go into a kiss tongue first right away.
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It could be two things. One, you guys just have different styles and need to find a way to compromise/complement one another. Or two, maybe it's a sign that you two aren't that good together. In my experience, if the chemistry wasn't right, me and a guy were never quite on the same page, know what I mean? There was always a sort of hesitation or awkwardness. But with someone I really connect with, kissing and all that just happens naturally without having to think about it. Hope it works out, good luck!0