What's your opinion of a girl who over the course of 2 years has only slept (like ever in her life) with 2 different guys, but has kissed/made out/hooked up with 12 different guys (2 are the guys she slept with). Basically, when she's single, she acts single. But when she's in a relationship, she stays faithful. Is she still considered promiscuous? Is this a bad thing? Would it discourage you from starting a relationship with her in the future? Or would it even matter as long as when she's dating you, she's only ever with you?
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my only concern would be does she crave attention and physical contact? I had an ex who after 2 dates we thought everything was going great. Now she had kissed/made out with more guys than she could count including just about every guy in her social circle...The ex went on vacation for 1-week and while we weren't exclusive during that one week made out with two different guys. I wasn't angry that she made otu with some dudes but mad that it seemed like she needed constant male attention and affection
To me the concern is that whenever they are alone or perhaps drinking a bit they crave male attention/physical closeness. That girl and I have now been dating for two years and I trust her 100%. I don't love the fact that she has kissed a ton of guys but it is also better than having slept with a ton of guys and while it may mean she craves physical affection at least she is relatively responsible about it.
By definition it is probably promiscuous but at the same time it's not as bad as it could be. I would probably date the girl in your example IF I felt like I could trust her0