that, when people say that, why do people say that when it comes to dating and relationships? that you have all the time in the world, that it is never too late? why is it true? why does it have to be true? because to be honest it makes me raging mad and pisses me off, because I'm 24 and still single, never had a girlfriend, I feel I'm missing out my best years, my youth, my prime years, of young innocent puppy love, even if I ever do learn or get the skills in order to get a girlfriend, attract girls, I will be old already, and yes it matters to me!, because I don't want to be dating or be attracted to women that are young enough to be my daughter, sorry but I have healthy standards like that
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I feel for you and I get where you're coming from. You're young and restless and have a lot of desires.
The world is yours for the taking.
You should be graduating college around this time to find a high-paying job.
You should be going on dates with women left and right.
You should have had mind-blowing sex with at least one girl.
You should have a hot girlfriend.
The time to live is now.
Sorry, but I've got some humbling news for you, and don't take this the wrong way because I don't want to discourage you. I want to help you. The truth is that the best years of your life take place when they take place. You're young and want your gratification, which is honest and only natural. However, that does not guarantee you anything. Not every man will have a woman throw off her panties on a whim. Most men will never have the experience of having hordes of women chase after them even during their most youthful years, and you are no exception. You've got to understand that first. Now, here's where the advice is.
You are young, so you still have several things going for you. You are still in your sexual prime. You are still full of vitality. You might even be taking off on some hot shot career. This also means you really do have time. What you do with that time, however, is up to you. Remember, women aren't going to throw themselves at you. Like anything else in this world, you're going to have to do some work.
The reason you might not be getting anywhere with women is because you aren't doing your part. Reach out and talk to them. Put yourself in front of women you are attracted to and show them who you are; show them what you are made of. If a girl doesn't want you, move on to the next one you want. There are plenty of single women out there who will want you for who you are.
Now, you may be thinking: "I don't have the looks," or "Dude, I don't have the job you're describing," or maybe "I've already been rejected."
So, what? While looks and money can help, your charisma is what really counts. If you don't let your shining personality out, then you're really out of luck. Like you, women want excitement. Just like you, women want someone to walk into their lives. The difference is that most women won't make the first move. Now, here's the catch... you will be rejected, and it might happen often. But the more you put yourself out there, more confident you become. Take time to work on that. If you keep facing rejection, instead of running from it, you'll soon learn that it isn't such a big deal after all. Then, when a woman notices that your personality is what she's after and that you aren't afraid, all you have to do is make the right move to get your foot in the door.
When people say you have time, they aren't lying to you. The world really IS yours. Women WILL want you. You can live now OR you can live tomorrow. It's UP TO YOU to decide when this will happen. You need only reach out and take it.3
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