I've been dating the same man for over a year, we're engaged. My sex drive is stronger than his and I'm wondering if it's not fun for a guy to know that his girl is always ready? Is knowing that every time you initiate sex you'll get it a a turn off for a man in a relationship?
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What? No! No offence intended, but this sounds completely ridiculous to me. I have been dating my girl for over six years, and I know she's always up for it. We have sex several times a day. I have no problem in knowing that she's always up for it. I have no problem knowing initiating will end well for me, and I can't think of why this would be a bad thing. The only complaint I have is that I almost always initiate it. Beyond that, I'm good.
Best I can figure, your man's problem is just that his sex drive is lower. If you're not getting it enough from him, you might be able to initiate it yourself. Just know that if his sex drive really is lower, then you might not always get it. As for your question, in general, I would suggest talking to him about it. I mean if you can't talk to your fiancé about this, then who the hell can you talk to? Just find the time to talk about it, and see if you can't work something out.
Best of luck to you.4