but he Always flirts with me. I am 25 and have 2 kids he's 26 and we have known each other for 5 months. I think I am really falling for him but I am not sure if he is just having fun at work or if he's into me. He always pushes me as he walks by. Once I came to work with my hair straighten and he seemed angry because he said what happen to your curly hair. The straight is boring. He also in front of other co workers joked about me wanting my kids to call him daddy and that I needed a DNA test to prove who the dad was even though everyone knew it wasn't possible because we didn't even know each other at that time. I think he was just trying to get my reaction about going to bed with him. But he is my manger and we are not allowed to date but I want him to ask me out so bad! Is he into me . Is the work code scaring him off or the fact I have two kids and he has none. Help me please!
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As much as you want him to ask you out, remember that it's never a good idea to mix work and pleasure, ie., dating someone you work with...especially your boss! Because if you have a bad breakup or fight, you won't be able to avoid each other on the job and you'll bring your personal drama to work with you where everyone can see it. Even if it goes well, people will accuse him of playing favorites with you, and they'll accuse you off trying to sleep your way to the top. :P I've seen this kind of thing happen before in the factory I used to work at: it didn't turn out well for any of them. Likewise, your manager's behavior is totally unprofessional and he could be fired or taken to court for that behavior. Even though you think it's flattering because you like him, to anyone else that would be considered sexual harassment. That comment about your kids and the DNA test sounds downright sleazy. If I were you, I'd avoid him like the plague and let HR know what he said. Remember, you have to be careful which guys you let into your life...if not for your sake, then for your kids'.0