Who came up with that sh*t lol? I was just wondering! because if affairs can happen when you least expect it, then we really don't need to play the "dating" rules to build a relationship, right?
I think everyone has gone through the phase of getting frustrated at the dating information that is thrown at us, because there are so many and each one contradicts one another.
So I have come to the point of no return, I want her to be mine..but I don't want to take her out on a date. So what are some other ways I can tackle this, that will enable me to build a relationship? Invite her over?
Please don't say go read Romeo & Juliet, Tristran & Isolde, Troy and Helen...ect..
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In the four serious relationships I've been in, three of them had no typical "dating" phase. We hung out as friends a lot for a long time, said, "I like you, wanna be my boyfriend/girlfriend?," said yes, and then resumed hanging out except with the extra bonus of relationship-y stuff.
I love doing it that way, "dating" just feels much less natural to me.4