So there are two guys. Lets call them guy one and guy 2. I'm really stuck between them and don't know how to choose, and I'm hoping you can help. I've known guy one for about two years now, and have had a major crush on him since the moment I met him. He's a very touchy-feely type person, and I'm not, however when he hugs me, I am totally comfortable with it. When I'm with him I feel like I can be exactly who I am, and I feel comfortable. There's a lot of chemistry between us, and I know it when I can look straight into his eyes. However, he has a bad history of dating around and sleeping with a lot of girls. (We're in high school) this shouldn't be that big of a deal, but some times I feel like all he wants is sex. And I am very physically attracted to him, but I've never even kissed anyone before.
So now guy 2. I'm going to prom with guy 2. We've hung out before, talked on the phone, text all the time. He seems really sincere, and really trying to make an effort. I think he's serious about relationships, but he also has a bad history with girls. However, I don't feel chemistry with him and he never looks me in the eye. I also am nt physically attracted to him. But that doesn't mean that I don't like him! I do! He's so sweet and tries so hard. I just don't know what to do. I know which one I WANT to date, but I also know which one I I SHOULD date, and the answers aren't the same. I also feel like a relationship with guy one would end more badly than one with guy 2, but I really just don't know what to do.
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With all those information and all things being equal, you should go with guy one.
Go with the person who will make you act who you are, and someone whom you'll be comfortable with.0