If your ex began dating somebody you and everybody else knows to be less than wholesome ( as in abusive, a serial cheater etc), even if you ended on really bad terms, would you feel the need to let your ex know he/she needs to be careful. If so, how would you go about warning them?
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Sadly, I wouldn't. She made that mistake herself. Of course on the inside I would feel really sorry for her, but if I showed it, it would only encourage her to stay with him. If I say nothing, then her leaving him is her decision and nobody influenced it. If I were to say something, it would seem that I was 'controlling' her lifestyle decisions and she'd brave the odds just to prove me wrong. Unless she was more on the forgiving side, then I'd tell she was dating a jerk. But because my last unfinished story stopped seeing me because her ex (who couldn't spell or treat her right) appealed to her more I would not intervene or stop her from dating such a person.0