This guy and I have been dating for the last month. We've been on five dates over the span of March, and talked throughout the day every day.
Last week, he came up to my apartment for the second time, which is an hour and a half drive from where he lives. Everything was awesome like every other date we'd had. I made us dinner, and we watched movies, and the whole time, he was as affectionate as he had always been. And I've heard from many people that he's not a touchy person, but he has always been affectionate with me.
He spent the night (not the first time we spent the night together), and the next morning we went to the mall in my area where he bought us coffee and held my hand while we shopped. After that, he left around one in the afternoon because he had to work at four and wanted to get the the gym.
I haven't heard from him since he left on Thursday.
On Friday, I texted him before he worked saying, "I hope work goes well for you cute boy :)" and I never heard back. It's now been five days since we've communicated.
What I was wondering is if I could text him kind of asking where we stand. I was thinking something along the lines of, "Hey ___. I thought things were going pretty well, so I'm a little confused about why we haven't talked since you came up to my place. If you're not interested, or need space or whatever, I'd appreciate it if you'd let me know."
If we had only been on one or two dates, I'd leave it alone, but I think that after five dates, I deserve a little bit of an explanation.
I'd appreciate any help or advice. :]
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give him a week max. maybe he got errands or issues he busy to settle with, but do drop a little message in a cute way like above asking if he been busy. after a week if he doesn't reply move on cause its clear that's he lost interest. hope I helped & hope things get better for you0