So there's this guy I like and he's somewhat shy when it comes to me. We have a class together and I sometimes catch him staring at me. I know he likes me because he's suggest so many times that we should hang out. But we only text or Facebook message each other. In public, we hardly ever talk to each other, only when I approach him. When we text however, he always asks to hang out. Like the first time he asked was to get ice cream, then to go ice skating, and then to maybe play football together sometime (since we're both pretty sport and love football). However, I always feel like I'm the one doing everything. I always initiate conversations first, like texting or IMing him first. All my friends say he definitely likes me, but I'm not sure if he's just shy or not. Even though we hardly talk in public (unless I talk to him first, which means more initiating first for me), when we text/IM, the convos are long and cute. We talk for hours sometimes! Even his friends tease him whenever I'm around. What do I do if he won't do anything?
Also, he always compliments me, and always tries to make plans for just the two of us to hang out, but he never says a specific time or day. How can I get him to show more interest/try more?
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No don't show interest, do the opposite. Don't even look at him, than he'll iniate a text convo lol that is if he likes you. Shy guys will text first, but they will never say anything first in person. Texting is safe and easy anyone can do it. He isn't too shy to text you first, otherwise he would be the biggest p***ussy on the planet. Just ignore the hell out of him until he makes a move, if he doesn't than leave him, he ain't the man you want, he ain't interested, or his shyness is too crippling, you never know he might needs to see a shrink for social anxiety disorder.0
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