How can I get past this?

I dated this guy for about 7 months last year, and then we broke up in July. We mostly broke up because we both just had too much on our plates and didn't have time for all the relationship stuff. So, we just started trying to date again, and all I can think about is wondering how many people he's been with since we broke up. I've only made out with two guys since we broke up, and it didn't go any further than kissing for me. I'm sure that this guy has probably had sex with people, though, and I can't stop thinking about it. Is there any way to get past this?


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  • Ask him, and walk away if his answer doesn't sit right with you. You should have this conversation anyway if you're thinking about fooling around with him as you need to know if he's clean.