I was with a girl for 2 months, I won't go into ALL the detail but we were incredibly strong for that time, I met her family and son, we talked about all sorts of things about the future etc. but last week she said she wasn't ready for a relationship and wanted out. she's been under a lot of pressure lately and (although maybe I'm just comforting myself...) I really feel that she's made a rash decision because she's down and upset about other stuff.
We still text daily, just random stuff but I really want to tell her how I feel, a text just won't do it. She said a couple of weeks ago that nothing makes her happier than flowers and candles on a table so I'm considering sending her flowers and a candle and writing her a letter to tell her everything that I feel.
I don't want to push her away though and today she was apologising for putting kisses at the end of a text. I feel like I'll regret it if I don't do something fast.
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For starters,you guys were together for a short period of time,and it is possible that maybe you were invested more than she was.
Secondly,it IS more than possible for someone to call off a relationship because of other things happening in life.It just means that she doesn't have the TIME or the ENERGY to tolerate having a relationship right now.I think its a little selfish that you can't see that.I understand you like her,but clearly right now she isn't as invested because of other situations she is dealing with.If you really cared,you would back off.If she apologized for putting kisses at the end of her text,then she is pretty serious about ending the relationship.Its clear that she didn't want you to have any...ideas.
I know its difficult to let someone go that you really like and you feel unsettled about it.Write the letter if it will make you feel better,but it is probable it won't sway her decision.0