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Well it could be you or it could be the guys you pick. You may pick guys who don't give you the attention you need/crave or it could be that you are subconsciously sabotaging your relationships.
I think you should just work on being patient and effective communication. Understand that we guys often have different levels of verbal intimacy than women and getting angry or berated a guy won't usually get the response you want. Also find guys who seem to give more attention to their partners guys who are verbally and emotionally available versus guys who may be a little more reserved or less verbally intimate