I met her online and before hand, knew she was living with a male roommate. She owns the house and they split
er mortgage. I learned to look past it and accepted it was platonic. Then, 2 months after we started dating she casually told me that 2 days after he moved in they started dating, and dated for a month. She said it was stressful because he wasn't good with girls at the time because his parents are getting a divorce. Since their breakup, they continue to live together and are good friends.
I should also mention he's online dating as well, and has been seeing a girl.
I'm so confused. I don't know how to see things now. I'm not sure if they had sex, but if they did that would make it way worse. What should I do?
So, they live together. They only "dated" a month and now its platonic. I guess you could assume they've slept together, since when they were dating they lived in the same place. What do you think?
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Why would them having sex make it worse? As long as it didn't happen while you were dating, it shouldn't be a problem. If there's something going on between them now, that's a different story, but I'm assuming you can't prove that's going on at this point.
Honestly, I think you should try to see things the way you have from the start. Their dating doesn't change anything about your circumstances, the only difference is you know about it. I'd say date her like you have been, and keep an eye on the situation. Don't assume she's cheating with him unless she proves otherwise.