I feel I have learned from my experiences that in general, girls prefer guys or aspects of dating that they don't have.
If a guy is really into them, they are too clingy and the girl needs space
If the guy treats them poorly/ignores them, they yell at him to be more romantic etc.
I just feel like in relationships I have had, when I distance myself from my girlfriend or any girl, they immediately get pissed and demand flowers, dates or more frequent texting. But when I start doing things, they need space to see friends or something.
If this is the case, when the hell do girls grow up, because honestly, this kind of behavior is immature to me.
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I've had similar experiences, though not entirely negative.
I've known many girls who, if I ignore them, they'll flirt outrageously with me. Then if I finally reciprocate, they start playing hard to get.
Also I've noticed that I'm much more attractive when I have a girlfriend. Really outrageous flirting. This isn't limited to strangers. Even some of my female friends have become flirty/jealous when I've had a girlfriend.
Basically women care much more about what other women think. If a woman has or wants something, often another woman will want it too.0