Okay, I am completely baffled by guys. They say I'm sweet, cute, intelligent, and kind. They come around, and start their games, which confuse me to know end. They say I'm a good girl and that they'd love to date me - okay, fine. But they date these little twits who dress like sluts, put out and don't care about anything beyond themselves. What is the deal? They say they want something real, and go for something fake.
I'm 21, full time college student, I know I'm not the prettiest, but my looks aren't what has drawn people to me, it's been my personality, and all these guys say they want one thing, and go for another. What is up with guys? What do they actually want? I haven't dated because some of the guys are downright jerks, no offense, and the guys I know would deck some of the guys that have been asking. I'm called a good girl, I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, party much, and I dress decently. I help everyone I can, smile all the time, and I've been told repeatedly that I'm the serious datable kind, but they go for the girls that sleep around on them?
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Well girls that put out are seen as great because guys are really geared towards wanting sex. Some more than others too. No matter who you meet they do want to get in your pants. Some might just care about who you are as well. If these are the guys you are running into don't bother even thinking about them. They aren't worth it.
I think the best thing you can do is just be yourself. Don't worry about what others think or do and things will fall into place. I too hold some negative beliefs but I try to drown them out with optimism and positive thinking.
There is a guy out there willing to work with ya. You just might need to be more observant because he could be shy and find you intimidating.0