I've noticed a pattern developing whenever I meet a new guy. I'll start getting to know him and even if it's going great and I like the guy, I always start finding reasons about why I shouldn't pursue the relationship/why it wouldn't work and just being generally doubtful. I don't know why I do it but I'm wondering if anyone else does this or if anyone can give me advice as to how to get out of this habit?!
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Clearly your not ready to date someone else.
You need to take your time, and figure out what you want. The reason as to why your not going for it, aka "the big leap" Is because you don't see all the way into the future with them.
I do the samething you do. I need that solid vision to properly be with someone, someone I can see myself waking upto everyday, and looks promising. Aka having a family, and knowing their family will love me, as much as my family will love them.
Just take your time. Don't rush, the right person will come along.0