I went on 5 dates with this guy - 4 were initiated by him and one by me. We have seen each other nearly every week, once a week. The dates have been great with plenty to talk about (we have not had sex -moving kinda slowly). On our last date he mentioned future dates etc. Its been over a week since our last date and he hasen't initiated any dates, yet he continues to text me and ask about my day etc. I asked him if he wanted to hangout last weekend and he said he couldn't but suggested that we do something during the week...so I asked him what day is good for him. He ignored my text but texted me 3 days later asking how my weekend was. I know he's been super busy/stressed planning his dad's birthday and sister's wedding but still...I am wondering if he's interested or just stringing me along...
I am just unsure about how to proceed...I like him but I don't want to focus all my energy on him because I've been very hurt before...at the same time, I don't like dating multiple guys at one time...HELP!
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he clearly likes you but you need to understand from a guys point of view planning a date takes a lot of time and energy. we always want to impress you! this guy is clearly busy and just hasn't had the time this week. it really helps if you suggest and plan a date once in a while to save us the constant thinking and leg work.0