I have a girlfriend that I've been dating for just over a year now that I really like a lot and am probably in love with. So you could say I should feel pretty happy with that. But a couple years ago I "dated" a girl for a month and a half who was one of my good friends. She ended up using me as a rebound and she went back to her ex shortly after. I'm not sure why but I think about her at least once a day and I can't help why I'm thinking about someone who treated me so crappy.
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I think this goes to all possible situations not only when dating someone but in life generally. We focus on the bad things and not the good ones, or we think about the bad things but appreciate the good ones. Why? Because when it's good it's good and there's no need of thinking about it just live it and enjoy it, when it's bad we either search for solutions, clarity, think about how and why did it happen. I think it's normal reaction and does not determine one as a negative person as long as he/she doesn't obsess about it. Wow, everyday? Well if it's just once a day it's not obsession but worrying, maybe why did it happen and asking yourself if it was your fault. But sooner or later you're gonna let it go.1
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