not even hugged a girl , had a girl (who doesn't work in customer service) smile at him ?
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If you base your entire self worth on your success with women and get rejected, you're obviously going to feel like a piece of crap. You say you don't believe in self esteem, but that doesn't make it go away. You've got to work on yours before you start seeing success with the opposite gender.
I'd suggest taking a break from girls... not even thinking about them. Focus on self improvement. You think you're ugly? Hit the reset button and get a makeover (haircut, a change in style, hitting the gym, etc...). These little things could add up and make a difference. At the very least, you'd improve your self image a little bit.
You say that because you can't attract girls, you're a "nobody". If that's the way you feel, it's not surprising that girls don't want to date you. From their perspective, you've got something to take (sense of self worth, happiness, etc...), but not much to give. Focus on acquiring these things and becoming a "somebody" without women. Focus on becoming a more well-rounded person. Then, you'll have a lot more to give, and you should see more success with the opposite gender.0