Dating 4 years older

So me and this guy have know each other for awhile but I'm 16 and he is 20. I really like him and he likes me but I'm concerned about us dating because he's over 18. Any advice?


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  • Does it also concern you that he isn't concerned, or he may not be dating you? Don't get me wrong, age is a number. However, the law has taught us to be concerned about a 16 year old and a 20 year old, because it is more likely a 20 year old could compel a 16 year old into doing things they regret or exploiting them than say a 30 year old dating a 26 year old.


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What Guys Said 1

  • Did he lure you in with candy or claim he lost his puppy?

    If not, he probably doesn't intend to rape you.

    It is really weird, though.


What Girls Said 1

  • i like older men to. I think you should go for it. just be careful like you should be with any other guy.

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