We dated for almost a year, she dumped me because she never loved me and though the relationship wasn't going anywhere.
In all fairness, I never told her that I loved her and I took her for granted at times. Nevertheless, it really hit me hard when we broke up.
She offered friendship, which I first rejected. I then went NC for a little over 2 months. We saw each other at a event and it was awkward, but it was amicable enough.
A month passed by and I saw her at another event, and she was very cold and even rude to me. I later found out that she was asking around if I was dating and was convinced I was dating someone. In fact, I went on some casual dates and socialized with an attractive female friend in the presence with one of my ex's friends.
I still wish I could get my ex back, but have no clue how. If I go back and beg, she will know she can dump and I will come back. This does not make for a healthy relationship. She may also reject me and I will merely be feeding her ego.
I may see her at a party next week and am unsure if I should ignore or smile/nod if we make eye contact. I will also be there with female friends, which may complicate things for me.
Thanks for any informed responses.
So, my ex saw me sitting with an attractive female friend at an event the other night. I smiled and waved at the ex, and she did smile back. However, there was no interaction after that and she did not stay for the after event party at a local bar. I don't know if this is because she didn't want into run into me and who she probably thought was the girl I am dating. Ladies, did I blow my chances of any reconciliation?
Would most women think I was being creepy? I did not approach her and want nothing from her at this point but peace and no hard feelings.
Would it have been better to ignore her completely.
I feel I did the right thing, but I am curious as to the women's point of view. Thanks.
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I believe that you shouldn't beg for her but let her know that you are still interested and let her know that you are serious this time ! Being with other girls will be bad because he will think that you are probably with one of them or seeing one of Them I suggest you let her well aware of that you are available and not with anyone if you treat her with respect he will come back to you and obviously she still likes you even though she won't say it women are like that hopefully everything goes well for you0