the title says it all .. people always say that to be good with women and dating you need to have game !
others say that you need to be a challenge i.e not showing your feeling and play hard to get so that you keep the girl challenged and as soon as you fall for the girl you are no longer a challenge you will be boring and predictable and the bitch is gonna dump you and go for another guy who is playing the same game on her and this keeps going on forever
on the other hand girl says that they want a nice guy who texts her 'good morning beautiful' and always giving her attention which gives you the feeling that girls are looking for kinda settling with a guy and have a constant romantic environment going on and yet they get bored easily and bla bla
so what's going on .. the whole thing doesn't sound natural anymore .. you can't be yourself cause you need to play games and do things you don't like and pretend things you don't wanna pretend just to keep things going on .. I think that's a lot of effort going to waste .. if no one is gonna like you for who you are without doing a single thing of these cheesy manipulating techniques then I guess screw it .. no need to date or waste your energy on such thing
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Lower they expectations and get real.
No, that's not part of the game to lower and settle. If I want someone who's romantic and able to communicate. Than that's what I want. And if I choose you because you presented all that in the beginning why would I assume that's not really who you are. Yes you must have game to create some intrest that doesn't mean lie.. Tho. Becoming some one who wants to please or make Ur women happy by saying or doing cheesy stuff doesn't make you less than a man .. And challenges Wth... Who keep saying that about most women that's not true. Women don't prefer a complicated situation.. That game you thinking is false actually if you haven't notice it drives most women away..to a lesser complicated situation ...while you think she calling because Ur game is working she's not she's trying to figured out what went wrong. And while Ur not reciprocating cause you think you got her where you want her . The other guy is making it a lot less complicated by communicating...and expressing his feelings.. And allowing her to express hers. Yes he might be running game too. But that's not the case all the time.0